Some will tell you its a myth some will tell you that it is not possible for every woman and others will say its just a fluke but it is definitely real and most if not all women can experience the immense pleasure of the female orgasm. It is true that it's much easier for some women than others but there are a few techniques that can vastly improve your chances of 'squirting'.
What is Female Ejaculation?
Also know as gushing, squirting and shejecualtion, female ejaculation is the expulsion of fluid the occurs during orgasm. What is is for, where it comes from and how exactly it is achieved is actually a hot topic of debate amongst even medial professionals, but what is know for sure is that is definitely exists.
Some people wrongly believe that is is urine that is ejaculated but that is not true. The liquid does generate from around the urethra and when it happens some women have reported it feels similar to peeing but it is not urine. If you ask anyone who has squirted they will tell you that it smells, looks and tastes nothing like urine and most medical professionals believe that is it some some of prostate plasma (again it is surrounded with some mystery).
Studies have sown that between 35-50% of women have achieved ejaculation some time in their life. Some women are lucky enough to be able to squirt with very little stimulation but most of the time it is much harder but with a bit more work and a little know-how you too can achieve this pleasurable feat.
First off you need to know that it can get a bit messy. Different women ejaculate different amounts of liquid which can be as little as a couple of tea spoons or it can be as much as 2 cups worth. It is not a big deal but worth keeping in mind that some clean up may be necessary after the event. A good preparation for this could be the use of plastic sheets to protect your mattress (the PVC Black Orgy Sheets for &21.25 are perfect for this).
It is also important to be 'in the mood', if it is your first time squirting i would even suggest having a clitoral orgasms already. This will make ejaculation much easier. Another step you should take is to urinate before before sex. It is not only recommended for good sexual health (it cleans away harmful bacteria) but also leaves you with an empty bladder making it easier to squirt.
Really Hitting the Spot
It is a popular belief that G-Spot stimulation is the only way to achieve female ejaculation. It is not 100% correct. It is true that the G-Spot hold a vital role in having a wet orgasm but is it not the only cog in the machine nor is it the only way. Some women have reported squirting from clitoral stimulation alone but this is rare. Most of the time you will require the G-Spot to be properly stimulated.
The G-Spot is located on the front wall of the vagina. The easiest way to reach it is with fingers (or a G-Spot massager) bent in towards the front wall. You will feel that there is an area that is slightly raised and a different texture to the rest of the vagina wall that is usually spongy. It can be in different positions for different women but it is normally 1-3 inches up (sometimes the reason some women do not get as much pleasure from G-Spot stimulation is that theirs is located a bit further up than others).
Some women don't enjoy G-Spot stimulation as much as others but if you are going top achieve female ejaculation it is necessary. Sometimes it can even be annoying and slightly uncomfortable but this will likely pass the more use to G-Spot stimulation you get.
Continue to stimulate the G-Spot as it can take some time to achieve. It is also advisable to stimulate the clitoris while stimulating the vagina as this may improve your chances of squirting.
If you are using your fingers to stimulate you should slowly massage the spongy area while using your thumb to stimulate the clit. You can apply quite a bit of pressure to the G-Spot without it feeling uncomfortable so I suggest applying and releasing the pressure in a small circular motion but you will soon fell what is good for you (or you will be told if you are doing it to a partner).
When you are reaching the point of ejaculation you may feel like you need to urinate. This is normal and as long as you have emptied your bladder before there should be no problems with peeing the bed and this sensation will quickly pass and be replace with the feeling of intense orgasm. At this point you should push out your PC Muscles which will increases your chances of squirting.
Using Toys for G-Spot Stimulation
There is a nice selection of sex toys specifically designed for G-Spot stimulation. They are normally curved with a larger head (in order to easier find the G-Spot) and most of them vibrate. When looking for a G-Spot Vibrator that will help you achieve female ejaculation I would suggest one with a clitoral stimulator built in. Below are a few of my suggestions for G-Spot sex toys;
Rotating G-Spot Rabbit (£40.29)
This is the ultimate tool for G-Spot stimulation. The bulbous head not only vibrates but also rotates providing you with the perfect G-Spot stimulation. The addition of a separate motor clit stimulator, that is it fully waterproof and the reasonable price tag makes this my top buy.
Lelo Gigi Version 2 (£67.15)
If you want quality pleasure devices then you cannot go wrong with Lelo. The Gigi 2 is their highly reviewed G-Spot vibrator that just oozes quality. It is made of an ultra soft silicone fully waterproof and is rechargeable. It also has 8 different vibration modes to make it easier to find the one that works for you.
We-Vibe The Thrill (£102.00)
We-Vibe have made a name for themselves by making some of the best couples vibrators available today. They have used their knowledge to create the Thrill and duel action G-Spot massager. This is a quality device that be moved about to make it even easier to find you G-Spot. It is a bit more expensive than the others.
Close2you Opus Pink (£53.55)
This vibrator from Close2You has been designed with shape in mind. The 180 degree angle makes it easier for you to reach your G-Spot while the powerful motors and 8 vibration settings stimulate you to ejaculation.